Wednesday, June 10, 2009

We are going to miss Allayah

It's been a rough week around here with the construction and then the scraproom disaster but I was holding on by a fine thread until yesterday. I went to Lands End private sale & I got this adorable 2pc swimsuit for Allayah who just loves to swim.....there is even a little mermaid on it. You all know how we have been waiting patiently for school to get over with this week so we could have her up here before summer school starts. She has been coming here since she was a year old and loves it up here and we try to have her as much and as often as possible.

Last night I got an email from her mother Sarah letting me know that my son Tory will not allow her to come up here anymore. We have always kept on good terms with Sarah since Tory's new woman positively hates us and does not let us see our other grandson Gavin that lives with them. She even went as far as sending his bday gifts back via UPS last summer just to spite us. We have never had a problem having Allayah up here and I can't tell you how heart broken I am that people will keep grandchildren away just to be mean. Do they not know how much they are hurting the child? I am not sure what to do besides being hurt and angry. The only way right now to handle this is to clean and keep so busy so I could be out of touch for awhile.


Colleen said...

So sorry to hear about this. I hate it when so called grown ups use little children as pawns and to fight grudges. Do your best to stay in touch with Sarah, and I am sure that she will be able to find ways for you to at least see your granddaughter. Children are smart and quickly figure out what is really going on. Good luck.

marla said...

Oh Louise - My heart is breaking for you. I cant imagine this happening and for sweet young innocent children to have to endure this. Yes keep in touch with Sarah and hopefully the tables will turn some time soon and you will get to see your dear granddaughter again. I am sure her heart is breaking also!!!

java diva said...

Louise, I am so sick, upset, and hurt for you!! How could they do that? I'm so happy you see how much this hurts your granddaughter as much as it hurts you. I didn't get to see my grandparents much growing up because of distance. It broke my heart, I love them dearly.
I'm so sorry you're going through this.