Thursday, June 11, 2009

Mean people

Well I've been trying to call my son and send emails to ask him to reconsider his decision about not letting Allayah come up here..........but nuthing. Today I went to his My Space page thinking I could leave him a message there in case he doesn't get my emails (his girlfriend has been know to go in and delete them) and under his friends was a picture of his girlfriends 3 kids(2 of them are with my son) and this is what she has written for the world to see

"Nik must be awfully powerful to keep a son away from his mother. I could rule the world! "

Yes her name is Niki and yes she is proud that has the power to keep my son and grandkids away from me but this is just plain MEAN! Don't you agree? A 28 year old woman who goes to these extreme measures just for the fun. Funny she doesn't include Allayah in the picture either since that is Tory's daughter and not her's. So if you think I felt bad yesterday........guess what.....I feel worse! Only good thing is the 1st level of our 4 level home is spotless........back to cleaning the stove and the kitchen. Say a prayer for me!

9 comments:

marla said...

Louise - I am so sorry for your hurt. I cant imagine another person wanting to inflict that kind of pain on another. I have NEVER known that kind of heart ache and pain but it brings tears to my eyes just reading this. I love how you keep busy and dont dwell on the negative things in your life. It is best to do this because than your life can be more happy and plesant. Hang in there and remember you have friends around the world thanks to FISKARS!!!

Jessica said...

I'm so sorry you've had to experience this viciousness! My sons first wife moved away when their son was under two. At first she kept in touch. But then she wouldn't let my son see him, and moved without leaving a forwarding address. Then when he was 4 she needed money so she got in touch again. Then moved again. This has gone on all of Michaels life. He is now 22 and I haven't seen or heard from him since he was 16. I often thank God that I took so many pic's that time. I know she did it out of spite against my son. But as a result she did it to me too. But the worst part....she did it to Michael. I remember when he was 9 he and I spent ONE day together, shopping and having lunch etc. And out of the blue he said in total surprise "You do love me!" So I'm sure she has poisoned his mind against us. I keep praying that some Day he'll want to see his Dad again, so I can see him too.
So I understand how you feel. But I've never had to endure the spite of hearing or reading it face to face! I'm soooo sorry. I wish I could help. Have you tried to get your son at his workplace? You could write a letter to him there, where she could not stop him getting it.I wish you all the best and sweetest things life has to offer.

Tona said...

I'm so sorry for your pain Louise. I can only imagine what you're going through. The sad part is that the grandchildren get hurt as much as the grandparents.

Holly said...

I am so sorry that you have to go through something like this. It's terrible and very sad for both you and your granddaughter. Sending prayers your way!
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Mary said...

what is she trying to prove, so because you want your grand daughter so badly, she will keep her from you, that is terrible, I feel sorry for you, I only have one grand daughter, I don't know what I would do if someone kept me from seeing her, all we can do is pray for you, that you will get to see her in the near future.. SOOOO SOOORY

Mary said...

I am so sorry to hear of your pain, my husband has an estranged relationship with his family and it is really difficult and sad, I wish I had some solution for you but I have not even been able to get my husband to fix his relationship. My mother-in-law actually told me that they did not want to get close to our daughter because they did not want to be hurt if my husband decided they could not see her.

Lorraine said...

Prayers sent your way...that is so nasty of her. I've been thinking about you lots.

Nicole @ BugaBoos said...

I am so sorry to hear that, it is just awful and I will never understand why people have to be that way! It breaks my heart especially that your grandaughter and you have to pay the price for someone elses problems. I will keep you in my prayers and pray that it works out.

Maxine Hodges said...

Louise,
I wish I could take some of the pain from your heart. That girl must have no understanding or love in her heart. To gloat over the power to keep a son and grandmother apart is horrific. You are a strong lady with a good heart. You have people from all over who you can call fiska-friends!